The Art of Steven Lopez- After Midnight Collection
Check out the artist webpage: http://artworksmagazine.com/2009/06/steven-lopez/
Tying The Knot Collection by Karen J Revis (my aunt)
John Mayer Acoustic version of "Who Say's"
Thursday, September 23, 2010
HunnyBeinFree- STuff that Interested me today....
Danish electronic soul duo Quadron-
The Art of Steven Lopez- After Midnight Collection
Check out the artist webpage: http://artworksmagazine.com/2009/06/steven-lopez/
Tying The Knot Collection by Karen J Revis (my aunt)
John Mayer Acoustic version of "Who Say's"
The Art of Steven Lopez- After Midnight Collection
Check out the artist webpage: http://artworksmagazine.com/2009/06/steven-lopez/
Tying The Knot Collection by Karen J Revis (my aunt)
John Mayer Acoustic version of "Who Say's"
Monday, September 20, 2010
HunnyBeeFree- Think Happiness & IT WILL COME...
Hey Hunnybee's!!
It’s been 10 months since your Momma Hunnybee has been out of the relationship world...and you know what...IT'S BEEN GREAT! By finally giving myself the opportunity to figure out myself and all my flaws, I was able to make changes, set goals, recharge, and prepare myself for whatever else God has in store for me. I finally gave myself the chance to think for me, and NOT for us (which can be very stressful), and was able to think happy thoughts, and genuinely remember what it felt like to be HAPPY
Growing up in a single, African-American household, can go one of two ways when it comes to marriage. One single mother may teach her daughter to NOT depend on anyone, much less men, and to focus more on her career & finances than romances. On the latter, the mother may influence her daughter by teaching principles of marriage being sacred, and that family-equaling a husband and children- is the only way to find true happiness. I believe neither side of the realm is completely wrong, and if done in a well balance value meal (because I relate everything to food), a young woman could grow up having the world if she chose- Neither the less… I was the child brought up to believe that happiness was only to be found if you had someone to share it with, and that you weren't a whole unless you had a partner around to take full care of you (NOT BLAMING MY FAMILY, #IMJUSTSAYIN). By being taught this, I've always thought by being in a relationship, I was luckier than the next because I had someone to share my stories with and take care of me. After 7 years of stress, all the happy times, and the bad, I was always in a constant fight with myself because I was never fully happy. At the end of the day, I had to de-brain wash myself and realize I wasn't fully happy because I believed I couldn't live life SUCCESSFULLY alone! In the end, after all is said and done, I was one, if not the main cause, for the outfall of my relationship. I was not able to love me the way I needed to love myself and this Hunnybee's, THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT! (In Step MJB song “BE HAPPY”..."How can I love somebody else, If I can't love myself enough to know...".
I think at the end of the day, people in general need to take time, experience life, and realize what life is like as an adult being alone. Life is fun! Go out, have a drink with a cute guy or girl, flirt a little! Ladies wear that scandalous dress you wouldn't wear while your dating that "special" someone- DO YOU! It pays off in the end, and you'll honestly thank yourself for the time you spent getting to know, love, respect, and cherish yourself, your space, and your time alone!....
On a brighter note…I’ve recently started dating my 6th grade Middle School crush! I’m completely Happy, completely Recharged, and completely ready to START OVER and be Happily in a relationship!! Smile!
It’s been 10 months since your Momma Hunnybee has been out of the relationship world...and you know what...IT'S BEEN GREAT! By finally giving myself the opportunity to figure out myself and all my flaws, I was able to make changes, set goals, recharge, and prepare myself for whatever else God has in store for me. I finally gave myself the chance to think for me, and NOT for us (which can be very stressful), and was able to think happy thoughts, and genuinely remember what it felt like to be HAPPY
Growing up in a single, African-American household, can go one of two ways when it comes to marriage. One single mother may teach her daughter to NOT depend on anyone, much less men, and to focus more on her career & finances than romances. On the latter, the mother may influence her daughter by teaching principles of marriage being sacred, and that family-equaling a husband and children- is the only way to find true happiness. I believe neither side of the realm is completely wrong, and if done in a well balance value meal (because I relate everything to food), a young woman could grow up having the world if she chose- Neither the less… I was the child brought up to believe that happiness was only to be found if you had someone to share it with, and that you weren't a whole unless you had a partner around to take full care of you (NOT BLAMING MY FAMILY, #IMJUSTSAYIN). By being taught this, I've always thought by being in a relationship, I was luckier than the next because I had someone to share my stories with and take care of me. After 7 years of stress, all the happy times, and the bad, I was always in a constant fight with myself because I was never fully happy. At the end of the day, I had to de-brain wash myself and realize I wasn't fully happy because I believed I couldn't live life SUCCESSFULLY alone! In the end, after all is said and done, I was one, if not the main cause, for the outfall of my relationship. I was not able to love me the way I needed to love myself and this Hunnybee's, THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT! (In Step MJB song “BE HAPPY”..."How can I love somebody else, If I can't love myself enough to know...".
I think at the end of the day, people in general need to take time, experience life, and realize what life is like as an adult being alone. Life is fun! Go out, have a drink with a cute guy or girl, flirt a little! Ladies wear that scandalous dress you wouldn't wear while your dating that "special" someone- DO YOU! It pays off in the end, and you'll honestly thank yourself for the time you spent getting to know, love, respect, and cherish yourself, your space, and your time alone!....
On a brighter note…I’ve recently started dating my 6th grade Middle School crush! I’m completely Happy, completely Recharged, and completely ready to START OVER and be Happily in a relationship!! Smile!
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